“To vote or not to vote, that is the question?”

I cannot vote in the upcoming referendum, as I am not an Irish citizen. In my opinion, that’s how it should be. To remove The 8^th Amendment from the Irish Constitution, is a matter for the people of Ireland and “Boi, oh Boi!” is everyone engaged. Unfortunately, this has released the absolute worst, from far too many people. Stoked by a social media tsunami, of hidden faceless individuals and groups “Trump-eting” false news stories, 24/7, on both sides of the divide.

Never in my half a century on this wee green planet, have I ever witnessed such a divisive, disruptive and downright nasty campaign. Even the recent referendum on “The Scottish Question” of Independence, held a few years ago, did not get anywhere near as brutal. Believe you me, it was heavily argued on both sides, but there just wasn’t the level of bitterness shown towards opposing camps. There are of course faults on both sides of this polarising debate.

“The 8^th” has become a by-word for dirty tricks, half-truths and misinformation on a biblical scale. Each side taking nuclear strikes, let alone pop-shots, at anyone who may just happen to hold an opposing opinion. Put the merest part of your body, be that only a fingernail, above the parapet and it will be instantly obliterated. There appears to be, a genuine vile hatred, towards people who merely have a contradictory point of view.

RTE and other broadcasters, have been running “Live” debates ad-nauseam. These have rapidly deteriorated into shouting and pointing matches. Both sides accusing their fellow men and women, of deception, distortion and fabrication! Not even seasoned presenters, have control over the madding crowds. Sitting in the cheap seats, shouting and sneering at people, who are wearing a different badge.

“Repealing The 8^th”, has shown our true colours, as an intolerable species. Is it any wonder that we are constantly at each other’s throats? There is no humanity, no compassion or any civility when it comes to the issues. Yet, there ought to be. As responsible voting adults, we should be able to debate and argue, both side of the coin. No need to resort to vitriol, narrow-mindedness and bigotry.

Perhaps the whole issue should have been taken out of the political arena? There should have been just one information pamphlet, from the Referendum Commission. Explaining, in very plain, simple English, what would happen should you vote “Yes or No”? A ban on posters and promotional material. A ban on canvassing. A ban on broadcasting and a ban on political posturing. Messaging taken off the streets, the issues raised in the homes of Irish Families. Debated in private, away from the glaring eyes of media intrusion.

After all, it is a supportive, loving family that women will need, if they are ever unfortunate enough, to be in a position to have to consider the subject of termination. Families will have to deal with the consequences and fallout. Not the “Look at me”, media hungry individuals we are witnessing, in both camps.

It is abundantly clear, judging by the very recent local media imagery, that many in positions of responsibility, even on our Council, are somehow just not thinking straight. Photographs of “Men Only”, standing to attention, some laughing and some sneering, whilst holding placards. Have received the political backlash they deserve. Just who thought that was a good idea? Quite rightly those involved have been castigated and chastised, allowing “Photoshop Aficionados”, to have a field day. Using the canvas provided, to ridicule the absurdity of the gathering.

Voting is not a God given right, it was surely won. No matter your opinion, you need to vote. I’d go so far as to say, that legislation should be introduced to ensure “You use it or you lose it!” We need to fine people who don’t vote, or take away that right at the very next opportunity. They’ll soon get the message.

The rights and wrongs of “The 8^th” campaign tactics, will be remembered for years to come. Leaving a lasting legacy. Ultimately changing the way we look at those who represent us, both locally and nationally.

Don’t waste your vote, use it wisely.